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Married? Oh No! I am Still a Single WomanHave you ever gotten to the point where you started scrolling through facebook or instagram and it felt like everyone was getting married….well except you.  Bleggghhh

Who wants to get married anyway, right? Single Life is the best life!

Well maybe it would be nice to have someone to come home too. But this dating thing just isn’t working out. Listen, I’ve felt the same way, but this is what I have found…

When you begin to change your outlook on relationships, something begins to shift. Ie. I always attract the wrong type of guy….then what do you attract deadbeats!

It wasn’t until I sat down and created what I call a Love Board (a compilation of pictures portraying what I wanted in a relationship). Those things began to change. I started to interact with “good men”. Now I still had to kiss a few frogs until I got to my KING. But I got my KING and so can you!

So if you are tired of being a bridesmaid, envision yourself in a relationship where you are happy.

What are the emotions you want to feel in this relationship? 

What kind of person will you be in this relationship? 

Its not just about what you can get/he can give or what he looks like and can buy you. But when you identify what it feels like to be genuinely happy and authentically you, you will know when you are in the right relationship.

Try it! Spend a little time creating a love board and put it up somewhere you can see it everyday.  And watch the magic happen.  #bridesmaidtobride


Dr. Casandra Henriquez

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Dr. Casandra

Dr. Casandra “Coach Cass” Henriquez is the CEO & Founder of, and is one of the foremost authorities on getting women Unstuck, Focused, and Amazing Results. For over a decade, Coach Cass has worked with Successful women helping them to reach new heights of achievement, both personal and professional. Coach Cass is known for Helping Successful Single Women be true to themselves while finding their one true love. Coach Cass has helped women break through their self limiting beliefs to embrace a dating as fun! A popular speaker and internationally recognized leader and innovator, she founded the WANTED Womens Retreat, happening this June, to empower single women to become WANTED Women in their relationships. She has been featured in high profile print media outlets such as Fast Company, Woman’s Day, Black Enterprise, Ebony and Essence and has made radio and TV appearances, including appearances Island TV and Black Entertainment Television. When she’s not helping women get their lives and love on track, you’ll find her channeling my inner Zen at yoga, soaking in the sun and listening to reggae music at the nearest beach, traveling, or snuggling up with her amazing husband Andy Henriquez.

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