CJ Westyn

Author Since January 2015

CJ Westyn is a dating and relationship coach. He offers relationship coaching and dating advice via Skype, phone and in person sessions. He is affiliated with Date Camp®, based in Denver, CO. CJ is a regular contributing author to Digital Romance, Inc, Thought Catalogue, and The SW Experts.

Through his writings and relationship coaching, CJ’s mission is to move his clients forward through overcoming the uncomfortable yet inherent challenges in human relationships. He focuses on issues that interfere with relationships such as anxiety, addiction and depression.

CJ holds an M.S. in Counseling and has spent years working with couples, families and individuals in overcoming their relationship issues. CJ Westyn is currently offering a complimentary coaching session to Digital Romance Inc subscribers. CLICK HERE for more info!

19 Articles by CJ Westyn

How to Never Play “The Blame Game” In Love Again

How to Never Play “The Blame Game” In Love Again

How can we place the blame on either men or women when our behavior is a function of science? We can only control our interaction with each other to…

Why You Should Set First Date Goals

Why You Should Set First Date Goals

It’s finally time! After all the searching and sifting you’re getting ready to go on that first date. Now that all the swiping and profile viewing is over…

How Googling Someone Can Ruin a First Date

How Googling Someone Can Ruin a First Date

So you just met someone online and now it’s time for the first date. The first thing you may do is run the person’s name through a people-finder website or…

You Only Have One Chance! 4 Tips to Help You Take More Risks Daily

You Only Have One Chance! 4 Tips to Help You Take More Risks Daily

By no means are you alone. But you have to go for it! You have to live like you only get one chance.

6 Ways to Feel More Connected in Long Distance Relationships

6 Ways to Feel More Connected in Long Distance Relationships

So you’re in a long distance relationship and things are starting to get stale. You feel that you’re losing connection with your partner and you fear…

5 Reasons Why Men Pull the Vanishing Act

5 Reasons Why Men Pull the Vanishing Act

Men pull away: You met a great guy. The two of you went out for a few dates and from your end things seem fabulous, but all of a sudden, he goes dark on you.

How to End on Good Terms With Your Ex

How to End on Good Terms With Your Ex

I’m an advocate for peaceful breakups. In my last article I talked about how to be friends with your ex after a breakup. I would like to provide…

5 Steps to Becoming Best Friends With Your Ex

5 Steps to Becoming Best Friends With Your Ex

So you find yourself missing your ex. That’s right. MISSING HER. But the thing is, you’re not missing her in an “I want to get back together” kind of way.

8 Tell Tale Signs Your Relationship Is Over

8 Tell Tale Signs Your Relationship Is Over

Do you feel like you are working way too hard to keep your relationship alive? Is it really alive, even after all of your hard work?

How to Tackle the Silent Treatment

How to Tackle the Silent Treatment

You can get over the silent treatment sooner than you think. There is hope! There are a number of ways to reach a point that opens up the possibility…

Get to Know the Person, Not the Profile…

Get to Know the Person, Not the Profile…

One likely first date question: “Do you want to be friends on Facebook?” When we rely on social media to get to know each other, we may…

Do You Love Her Enough to Let Her Go?

Do You Love Her Enough to Let Her Go?

He was there for me in my own dating struggles. When I was dumped, rejected, cheated on. He taught me the meaning of love.

How to Prepare for a “Down the Road Breakup”

How to Prepare for a “Down the Road Breakup”

You’ve finally found THE ONE and you know it! In the event of a breakup, who owns what? Is it a “what’s mine is yours” type of thing?

How & When to Act On Red Flags…

How & When to Act On Red Flags…

What’s a red flag? Some say it’s a sign that there is something “wrong” with a person…that when you see one, you should figuratively head for the hills…

Men: Never Say “She’s Out of My League” Again!

Men: Never Say “She’s Out of My League” Again!

“Wow! Did you see her? Forget it dude…she’s so OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE.” Sounds familiar doesn’t it? You may even hear a little voice in your head…

Is He Cheating? How Far Will You Go to Catch Him?

Is He Cheating? How Far Will You Go to Catch Him?

The first thing that hit me was CHEATING! Most would agree that the act of cheating is “wrong.” But what’s to be said for the act of proving it?