Heidi Doheny Jay, M.S.

Author Since October 2015

Heidi has a degree in Psychology and is a columnist for the online newspaper, The Boca Raton Tribune.

Her column: Sex, Lust & Love is based on her upcoming book in which she interviewed over 400 married, single and divorced men between the ages of 21-79 from various races and backgrounds. Her column reveals men’s answers to some of the actual interview questions. She is also a contributing writer for Singles Warehouse Experts: an online site for dating, love and relationship advice.

Recently Heidi was named one of the top 12 online dating experts to follow on Twitter by Online Dating University.

Her short stories have been published in New Voices: Poems, Stories and Essays from The Denim Poets Society 2010 and The Third Kingdom: New Writings From the Animal World 2014.

In addition to her 13 years of sales experience in the corporate world she has spent hundreds of hours questioning men of all ages about their personal and intimate experiences with the women they love.

Her guest appearance on Hal Spielman’s Suddenly Solo radio show was featured in his segment: Interesting People Doing Interesting Things.

Her social media platform has grown organically from her online newspaper column: Sex, Lust & Love. As of today her followers include:

To sign up for Heidi’s latest online show about all things: Sex, Lust and Love, visit her website at: Heididoheny.com

9 Articles by Heidi Doheny Jay, M.S.

How Often Do Women Hurt Men’s Feelings? – All The Time!

How Often Do Women Hurt Men’s Feelings? – All The Time!

Women hurt men’s feelings on a regular basis and they have no idea they’re doing it.Most men never tell their wife or girlfriend that their feelings are hurt…

Does P@nis Really Matter to Women?

Does P@nis Really Matter to Women?

I’ve received several emails lately from men who are worrying unnecessarily about the size of their p@nis and how they think it equates to how good…

How to Build Confidence With Men

How to Build Confidence With Men

I’ve received several questions over the last few weeks about how to gain confidence with men. In this video, I talk about why it has nothing to do with men…

The Advice Men WISH Women Would Listen To!

The Advice Men WISH Women Would Listen To!

Men give firsthand advice to women about dating, relationships, and how to better understand men. Hear the advice men wish women would…

How Would Men Answer… “Whats the Nicest Thing a Woman Can Do For You?”

How Would Men Answer… “Whats the Nicest Thing a Woman Can Do For You?”

What woman can do for you? Have you ever wondered what men really want from women?

Understanding Loneliness in Men & How You Can Help Them

Understanding Loneliness in Men & How You Can Help Them

In my conversations with over 400 men, I noticed this pattern of isolation and loneliness that became apparent the more I spoke to them…

The Surprising Self-Pleasuring Habits of Women

The Surprising Self-Pleasuring Habits of Women

While many people assumed they knew a bit about men’s habits, most people were also curious about women’s habits of self-pleasure…

How to Get What You Want From Your Man

How to Get What You Want From Your Man

Woman want to be heard, respected, loved, honored, listened to, supported, paid attention to, have their space, feel validated, cherished, noticed…

Why Some Men Don’t Call After the First Date…

Why Some Men Don’t Call After the First Date…

First date: You’re out one night and meet a nice guy and end up chatting with him a bit. He asks for your number and you’re happy to give it to him…