Kimberly Seltzer

Author Since November 2013

Kimberly Seltzer, owner of SeltzerStyle.com, is a Makeover & Confidence Expert, Therapist and Dating Coach based in Los Angeles. She utilizes the unique combined use of therapy, in-field date coaching, NLP and styling to help people with their confidence and dating life. Kimberly helps men and women update and discover their personalized image through wardrobe consultation and assistance in purchasing clothes that fit each body type and lifestyle.  She has developed her own wing gal approach with clients doing in-field work working on body language, first impressions, styling and communication and how it impacts confidence and attraction. She has enjoyed opportunities on the radio, tv and on the web.

Kimberly is the Co-host & Lead Love Expert of a traveling dating show, The Great Love Debate.  She is also the co-host of a podcast, Full Disclosure launching soon.  You can also see her in a new cable reality dating show, The Romance.   Kimberly enjoys speaking and giving seminars such as being the keynote speaker for Neutrogena, National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony and iDate.  Kimberly has partnered with Distinguished Speaker Series in developing unique and sophisticated singles events.  She is an advisory board member and dating expert for a newly launched program, XOXY.com.   Kimberly is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, DigitalRomance.com, WorldLifeStyle.com and YourTango and is featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Redbook and Yahoo Shine.

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67 Articles by Kimberly Seltzer

5 Ways to Get a Man to Pursue You Now!

5 Ways to Get a Man to Pursue You Now!

Many women complain that men don’t pursue them. Some blame it on men being passive today. Some feel that men should make the first move…

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 3 of 3)

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 3 of 3)

Long-Term Partner: At the end of the day, flirting shouldn’t stop once a commitment is made. Bringing back the romance between couples can be fun…

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 2 of 3)

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 2 of 3)

Long-Term Partner: There are many different types of nonverbal cues that can communicate your interest and investment in each other…

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 1 of 3)

How to DATE Your Current Long-Term Partner… Again (Part 1 of 3)

Long-Term Partner: When people in a committed relationship find out that I am a dating coach, I am often asked, “Can you help me date my partner again?”

How to Dress to Make a Man’s Head Turn

How to Dress to Make a Man’s Head Turn

Coco Chanel once said, “Dress poorly and people will notice your clothes; dress well, and people will notice you.” I often see women who don’t know how to dress for…

Not Feeling Good Enough? How to Avoid Your Inner Gremlin From Killing Your Dating Life

Not Feeling Good Enough? How to Avoid Your Inner Gremlin From Killing Your Dating Life

Dating: Have you ever met someone and you think they’re great and you wanted them to ask you out or ask you out again for that matter?

What Men Should Wear on a First Date

What Men Should Wear on a First Date

Men, did you know that women DO care what you wear on a first date?

What Women Should Wear on a First Date

What Women Should Wear on a First Date

Do you find yourself rummaging through your closet trying to determine what to wear for that first date?

How Women Can Give a Great First Date

How Women Can Give a Great First Date

It’s here! You finally have your first date with a guy after numerous exciting conversations, great photo exchanges and fun IM’s. All is looking good and…

How to Get Out of Your Head When You’re Dating

How to Get Out of Your Head When You’re Dating

One of the most common challenges both men and women have when dating is that they get too much in their head. They either are too…

Love Your Body… And Men Will Too

Love Your Body… And Men Will Too

That kind of inner confidence can’t be faked, and in order to get it you need to learn how to love your body exactly how it is today – flaws and all…

4 Secret Tricks for Busy Women to Become “Date Ready”

4 Secret Tricks for Busy Women to Become “Date Ready”

Too often women rush through the getting ready process and show up at dinner disheveled, anxious and unkempt. This is a common scenario amongst busy women who…

Why Men Go Silent When Dating Someone

Why Men Go Silent When Dating Someone

Are you often confused why men communicate the way they do and sometimes go silent when dating?

How Your Fear of Being Seen Is Preventing You from Finding Love

How Your Fear of Being Seen Is Preventing You from Finding Love

Here are areas in your life you may be hiding and how you can slowly gain the confidence to put yourself out there to attract love…

What Women Find Sexy About a Man’s Style

What Women Find Sexy About a Man’s Style

Kimberly Seltzer shares some secret tips on what women find sexy ON a man. It’s actually simpler than you might think.

How to Create Chemistry With a “Nice” Guy

How to Create Chemistry With a “Nice” Guy

Guys often fall into one of two categories: ones that they are physically attracted to, but flawed, or ones that are just “nice guys” without chemistry.