Most single women complain that they don’t date enough, but when I ask them how many men they’ve asked out lately, the answer is often a shocked and confused “None!”
(Nun, get it?)
You can trade in your chastity belt for a garter belt and date as much as you want to, whenever you want to, when you flirt like a self-assured Romantic Researcher, and not like a lonely lady in waiting.
Now before I share maneuvers guaranteed to get you working your lingerie drawer, you’ll need to trash some old ideas first. Here are two man-catching techniques as current as the crossbow and might be keeping your love life in a very deep sleep.
1. R.E.M.ing for Romance
Many date-free women are still trying to lure men by using Retinal Morse Code, a series of rapid eye movements, stares, and eyelash-battings that signal that you’re there for the taking but wouldn’t dream of doing the asking. This kind of passive flirting is ineffective, unattractive and just makes you look like you have a nervous tic. It’s obviously a relic from an earlier time when women didn’t have access to mascara.
2. Being a Size Queen
Millions of women spend gorgeous weekends on the StairMaster hoping that their dream man will magically appear the second they can fit back into their skinny jeans. These women blame the size of their thighs for their singleness, and believe that when they finally look perfect, the Barbie Dream House will become theirs, along with Ken and all of those fabulous shoes!
I’ll let you in on a secret. Even women who are perfect size 4’s are often date-free too!
That’s why every woman, no matter how small or how tall, will benefit from acquiring modern flirting technology.
You can date as much as you want to, whenever you want to, by mastering the art of the magical phrase “Nice tie!”
This maneuver can be performed by the solo flirter anytime, any place, and is guaranteed to transform you into the man magnet that the Goddess intended you to be!
How to Become a Magical Man Magnet
The next time that a man who intrigues you crosses your path, simply compliment something he’s wearing or doing. All men love to be ad-mired. They are totally motivated by it, will go to war for it, and build skyscrapers for it, so all you have to do is use this male character trait to your romantic advantage.
Casting a small crumb of approval a man’s way will have an amazing “open sesame” effect on him. He will happily chirp away with any woman smart enough to notice his fine feathers… and water- proof sports watch.
Man Fact: Men are externally referenced. They cuddle up with magazines about breasts, cars, and guns. Conversing with men about any gizmo or inanimate object is always the best way to draw them out.
WARNING: Never compliment a man on his physique! This will only serve to embarrass or confuse him about what your intentions are. Unless he’s just a fling… Then just go right ahead and spell it out for him!
The secret to breaking the ice is to make sure that your compliment is always once removed. (Exceptions: tattoos and huge biceps. They fall under the purview of man jewelry, too.)
TRUE STORY: I once said, “Nice tie” to a gorgeous man on the red carpet at a film premiere. He whipped it off and proudly handed it to me, to the amazement of his little entourage. (I used it to tie him to my bedpost one rainy evening… but I’ll tell you that story later.)
Manhandling Maneuver: The best way to break the ice with any man is to quickly pay him a compliment!
If you are date free, start complimenting men, immediately! They’ll appreciate it, and it will break the ice instantly!