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Have you ever noticed when we are looking for love, we don’t find it? Yet, when we are not looking, it magically finds us. The best love just happens. It’s almost as of it falls out of the sky.

Love and Being With The OneWhen we step into the flow and trust, The Universe does all the work for you. Each of us longs to love and be loved. Being in a loving relationship makes everything in our lives better. When we look for love we are coming from an empty place, rather than a place of fullness, or completeness. Like in the movie, Gerry, McGuire, we may be wanting someone to complete us. When we do, we are not happy with the result long-term, our joy isn’t dependent on anything outside of us.

I recently stepped into the flow and allowed the universe to bring love to me. What did it take? Trusting my guidance and listening. I haven’t been dating in months. Recently, I was directed to go to the beach, even though I had visited the previous week. I followed my intuition, trusting. I wondered in my head, should I go today? I heard, “GO. You are going to meet someone!” “Today?” “YES!” I got the word and I still questioned it. Go figure!

I wrote my blog and began to prepare for the two-hour-plus drive. Then I heard, “You might stay the night.” That was interesting, as I usually struggled to make the drive back home. I didn’t know anyone in Santa Barbara. I didn’t doubt my intuition.

There was no urgency to leave right away. I took my time packing up, finishing my blog. Traffic was heavy going through town due to an accident. Again, I felt calm, there was no rush. The drive took me over three hours. I found a parking spot near the beach without much of an issue and started walking.

As my beach blanket began to slip from under my arm, a tall man with a dog asked if I needed some help. Before I even had a chance to answer, he was already taking my cooler and beach blanket from me. I was struck by his casual kindness. He offered his hand to me, which I gratefully accepted, as I slid down the bank, commenting on chivalry not being dead. It was so easy.Love and How to Easily Find It

We walked down the beach talking effortlessly, I felt comfortable and unafraid. When we got to the perfect spot on the beach, he asked if he could join me? I could have said no to this stranger. It was clear this was the person I was to meet.

When The Universe does the work for you, there are many pleasant surprises.

I had already done the work writing my list of 100, that I teach my clients to do, I knew what I wanted in a man. I am an animal lover. I knew I wanted someone who had a loving relationship with their dog. This man was walking his dog, Henry without a leash. Clearly there was mutual respect between them.

I wanted someone who loved to cook, take care of me, instead of the other way around. Someone who was close to my age, with grown children, tall, emotionally mature, fiscally responsible, secure, healthy, funny and knew who he was. I wanted a man, rather than a boy. I didn’t want to mother someone else. My children were all grown. I was ready to be appreciated and loved for me.

When I stopped to take my hat off, he looked intently at me, his sea blue eyes got wide and he told me how beautiful I was. He already appreciated who I was. I knew my guy would have blue eyes. We spent the afternoon together, talking, laughing and getting to know one-another. We shared stories, listening intently to the other. His children were grown. Henry his dog, was loved, respected and cherished.

After three hours, he told me he had a fresh piece of swordfish and bashfully asked me if he could cook dinner for me. I already knew the invite was coming. I felt safe. I replied, “I would be delighted.” I said a silent prayer of gratitude to the universe for bringing me someone so wonderful.

The Universe will always find someone better for us than we could ever do for ourselves.

We spent that first evening laughing until the wee hours of the morning. I felt safe, cared for and revered. His sweet comment to me, “I have waited so long for you, I hope I don’t screw this up,” did not fall on deaf ears. Over time, if I made a request, it was filled without question. His extra firm mattress was replaced after only one comment, it hurt my hips. Within a week he sent me a text with a photo of the pillow top mattress he bought, exactly what I wanted. He clearly wanted me with him and made it obvious. I thought back to other relationships where men would not listen, or tell me I was beautiful, or make accommodations for my comfort. He recognized my value, because I did. I knew who I was and he saw me clearly. Contrast allows us to recognize the beautiful gifts in the present moment.

As you are thinking about your beloved, step into the flow and let The Universe take control. I assure you that you will not be disappointed. I would love to hear your stories and questions. Please contact me by checking my bio below and visiting my website. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Thanks,
Jennifer Elizabeth

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters

Jennifer Elizabeth Masters is an author and love coach, she empowers you to break through beliefs and patterns quickly to find love.

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  • Tamika Aug 20, 2015 at 8:53 pm

    I have been married three times and had pretty much given up on love. After my last divorce I decided to just be by myself because I made bad choices. I married for all the wrong reasons, pregnancy, financial gain and loneliness. Never once could I say I had true love. One day I woke up and said I want to be loved and I want to love someone. I felt that I’d I truly opened my heart to someone they may just open their heart to me. That night I was watching television and a dating site came on. I quickly signed up for 30 days. I told myself I was going to give the site a month and that was it. I quickly began building my profile and I said exactly what I wanted. Love, commitment, friendship and marriage. I wanted someone who I felt connected to. I began receiving messages and none really spoke to my heart. They were full of games and corny lines. One morning about 3 weeks in I woke up with love on my mind. I opened my messages and the first one I read simply said, : HELLO BEAUTIFUL.” MY heart skipped a beat. This man was different, my soul felt happy when I say his photos. I messaged him back “Hello and good morning.” We messaged back and forth for a few days and I felt a connection that was new to me. For the first time I felt that someone was made just for me. I could be myself and he liked me, I liked him too. After a week we met for lunch in a town that was between us. We both had to drive an hour to meet. When I pulled up to the mall where we met he open my door, took my hand and helped me out of my car. We hugged and my spirit sang!! We fit together like perfect puzzle pieces. No kiss, just a good old warm welcoming hug! We couldn’t stop staring at eachother, the chemistry was amazing. We walked hand in hand for about an hour talking. We sat down to eat and couldn’t stop talking. We continued our walk when we finished eating. Finally at the end of our date as we stood at our cars we hugged and sealed it with a kiss. Not just any kiss, but a kiss that felt like my entire body was involved. Not just our lips, but our hearts and souls were in that kiss. We knew then that we had something different and very special. We cancelled our on line membership that same week and have no regrets. That was 8 weeks ago and we have met several more times in his town as well as mine. We talk and Skype every day and night. We are planning to relocate together within a year. He his my soul mate, my best friend, lover and future husband. He has met my family and I have met his. I now know what true love is and it feels so good. I’m glad I opened my heart and trusted the universe to send my man!
    Tami
    PS His name is Wil (yes with one L) LOL

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  • kylie Aug 19, 2015 at 3:04 am

    Non filfullment or stable relationships. . Is it me ?

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