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The key to inspiring a man to pursue you is knowing your value and putting YOUR heart first.

This is a very different feeling and vibe than trying to impress a man and convince him that you’re a “catch” or that you’d be a great partner.

The truth is, a man can’t love and respect you any more than you love and respect YOURSELF.

It all starts with you.

Pursue You? How to Capture His Heart!When you truly recognize your value as a woman deep down, the way you behave and the way you speak start to work differently – your vibe organically starts to change, and this makes you incredibly attractive!

For example, if deep down you truly know your value and you put your heart first, you’re not going to tolerate bad behavior.

You’d instinctively feel turned off if a man wasn’t treating you well.

You wouldn’t want to waste your time on a man who’s interested in other women or unsure about his feelings for you.

The most important thing about this is – you want this feeling that you know your value to be on the INSIDE, not on the outside like a wall you build up around yourself.

A woman who REALLY knows her value doesn’t need to tell a man that she’s a high-value womanAnything you do or say to try to “get” him to realize that you’re a high-value woman is going to backfire on you.

Instead, you want to watch what he does, and you see how that makes you FEEL

Inspiring a man to pursue you is all about the way you respond to the way he acts. A true high-value woman doesn’t have to do anything to “make” a man pursue her, except respond as a woman who knows her value would respond.

The right man for you will want to pursue you without any prodding or convincing from you!

When a man shows up and starts pursuing you, you want to be warm, open and receptive to him – you want to be an invitation.

If a man stops pursuing you, you don’t want to go into “convincing mode” and start pursuing HIM – this will decrease your value in his eyes and push him away on a deep, unconscious level – especially if he’s a masculine-energy man.

When you truly believe deep down that the right man for you will recognize your value (just like you do!) and pursue you all on his own – you just won’t accept anything less!

Once you start experiencing what it’s like to be pursued by high-quality men who want to be with you because of WHO you are, your vibe will shift and everything will start to organically move in the right direction.

This is where I want you to be – truly knowing your value and being pursued by men who know your value too!

Love, Helena

P.S. – If you want to learn the secrets to inspiring a man to step up and pursue you, see my bio for instant access to my FREE “3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want” report and in-depth audio training!

Helena Hart

As a Certified Life and Relationship Coach with a masters degree in Psychology, a Master Coach Teacher for Rori Raye, and author of “Attract The Man You Want,” Helena Hart helps people all over the world effortlessly attract love into their lives – and she can get results for you quickly!


If you’re ready to inspire the kind of deep attraction and devotion that makes a man fall in love and want to be with you forever, visit You can instantly download your FREE “3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want” report and in-depth audio training!

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  • Cindy Oct 15, 2016 at 8:16 am


    Love you!!


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