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Not dating anyone? Here’s some things you can do to keep yourself mentally occupied!

Be Hopeful

SinglenessSingle and Happy! Living the Life of Singleness, for most, lasts but a season. For some, that season is short lived, for others it may consist of an interminable period of lonely Friday nights. However, when you sustain a positive outlook those nights look less and less like loneliness and take on the image of self-discovery, a process that is imperative for individual growth.

Do Things That Make You Happy

While learning ‘who you are’ you will be able to identify all the things that make you happy outside of a relationship.

Focus on Personal and Professional Goals

Relationships are work and work takes time. The time you’d usually use to improve your relationship can now be allotted to your personal and professional goals. If you’ve always wanted to write a book, here’s your chance. Pursue your passion, now’s the time. Put in the extra effort to get that promotion you’ve always wanted, do it!

Work on Self-Improvement

Just because you aren’t in a relationship, doesn’t mean you can’t use this time to prepare for what’s to come. Take some cooking classes or enlighten yourself by reading a few books on love.

Embrace Quality Time With Others

When you’re in a serious relationship, the time you spend with loved ones become limited. Being single is an opportunity to maximize that time with your parents or siblings. Have dinner with your friend you haven’t seen in a while.

Being single doesn’t have to boring! Make the best of your time alone, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be well-prepared.

Mika Frank

Mika is a freelance writer and dating consultant. Mika has consulted over a hundred single men and women on how to date healthy.

Mika is a freelance writer and currently resides inLos Angeles, California. Visit her blog at:

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  • Enszy Apr 4, 2016 at 2:22 am

    Finally, Its all about me!!!


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