Episode 171

Is Your Relationship Healthy?

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How do you know if you are in a good relationship? In today’s episode, Mike and Nora talk about what a healthy relationship looks like, signs you are in a toxic one, whether or not you can save an unhealthy one and much more!

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  • Karina Aug 9, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    Hello, my name is Karina
    I have some questions. On this episode you mentioned about different love language. Well I’m a gift giver and my bf isn’t. We’ve been dating for a little over a year and Ive given him gifts for his birthday, holidays, 1 year anniversary, and he hasn’t given me anything besides for Christmas. My birthday was August 3rd and he only gave me a cake and milk, I love the gesture but I was expecting a little more since it was my bday. Why is this?? Is there a way I can hint that flowers will be nice ever now and then or at least a nice gift for my bday?
    Also I have always trusted him until I decided to snoop into his phone. I never had the urge to until the night before I was out w/ the girls and we’re talking about all the stuff they have found on their mans phone and gave me the advice to never do it b/c I will never find anything good. So the next morning I felt the urge to so I did. I found some texts of him flirting w/ his so called bestfriend from high school. I was so crushed b/c I never expected that from him. He’s the most loyal, honest, hard working, sweet, funny guy I have ever met, ever! And it crushed me b/c he was doing the flirting when his bestfriend wasn’t really saying much, but he kept insisting and flirting w/ her.. Like he wanted something. And I busted into tears. I stayed quiet about it for hours until after his soccer game I asked him to talk. I told him what I found and he got mad at me for going through his stuff and wanted to break up. It was a long argument and I told him fine. But shortly a day after we got back together. After finding that I got really insecure and I’m always wondering what he’s doing on his phone. I feel like I’m not good enough sometimes. I always have the urge to check who he’s been texting and go through his phone, but I dont. And I was never like this until that happened and I don’t know what to do. How can I be calm and not feel so insecure?? I know he doesn’t have many girl friends and I feel like I can trust him but I’m always wondering what he’s up to on his phone now. He even told me he will stop talking to his bestfriend, but I’d hate to do that, but that kind of made me feel a little better. But this has made me so insecure that sometimes when girls pass by I see to look if he looks, I was never like this b/c I knew I could trust him and I wouldn’t have to worry.

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  • Erica Hernandez Jun 21, 2016 at 4:58 am

    Hi Michael,

    My name is Erica and im 17 years old I have been dating the same guy for a little bit over a year and a half. Lately we have been arguing over dtupud things… For example, last night I webt iver to this house after class and within the last hour that I was there, I received phone calls from my parents and they both asked for a favor. As I got off the phone my boyfriend asked what the favors were, and I hate they he questions what my parents ask me to do, it’s not exactly his business. So I told him what the favor was with a bit of attitude and then he tells me that hes done with they way I talk to him, when I dont speak to him like that all the time it will be every once in a while and I’m not sure what to do this is the 4th time we have broken up but it is over something completely stupid. I dont know exactly what to do but I really want to be with him and only him. I tried to do your Text Your Ex Back program in November when we had the worst breakup, but I found it to hard not to talk to him for 30 days, condsidering that he would get mad at me if I didnt answer i text from him asap since I am always on my phone. I love him to death and I am more happy then sad in the relationship. Can you please help me?

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