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Taking control of your love life and creating what you want to experience in your partnership is crucial in having that relationship you desire.

Take Control of Your Love Life: The Formula for a Lasting RelationshipYou must know what you want to have what you want!

I know we all have made our lists of what was important in a relationship. Usually, those consisted of a shallow version of a person (i.e. how they look, dress, their career, money, etc.) But, what if you could manifest your next great relationship with the qualities and characteristics that REALLY matter?

When asked by a client a couple years ago to come up with a list where the magic could happen, it resulted in what you are about to read right now.

Emotional Healing/Awareness

You must be aware of your own emotions and have awareness of what you are feeling! This prevents projection, blaming, shaming and so many other problems that can occur if a partner is not on the path to heal emotionally!

Spiritual Evolution/Enlightenment

We are on a journey to ENLIGHTEN. When you share this with someone who believes this, what a beautiful experience you will have!

Neuroscience of Changing the Brain

Knowing what your personal brain patterns are, for the good, the bad and the ugly, is vital in changing yourself! Transformation begins in knowing how your own mind operates.

Physical Chemistry

You want to have some excitement when you see your partner walk through the door! You want the attraction for your mate!

Sexual Connection

Let’s face it, sexual connection is a MUST in an intimate relationship! Without the passion between two people and connecting in a deep, physical way, it is much like living with a roommate.

Desire for Deeper Intimacy

Intimacy is not the same thing as physical chemistry or sexual connection. Intimacy is in sharing yourself, from a deep, emotional place. The part of you that has been hidden from others. The Secret You, that rarely gets seen.

Similar Core Values

Having similar core values is an absolute must in building a miraculous relationship! If you don’t have this, you will have trouble. This is the same phrase as, being on the same path.

Playing on the Same Team

Too often, when couples are stressed with day to day living, they become almost like enemies. It’s too sad when couples forget they are on the same team and the bickering becomes the wedge that separates a family.

Having Fun Together

I am really good at this! 🙂 Having a partner that you can laugh with, goof off with, explore together, is vital to keeping the relationship light! Life is so much better when fun is mixed in!

Enjoying Similar Activities

You want a relationship where you have similar activities you both enjoy. This is so enriching for the relationship! Pick someone that enjoys trying new things.

Similar Life Paths for Soul Purpose

A relationship can live without this, but when I was asked to write my list, this was of extreme significance! I wanted to share my life path and dreams with my life partner and it has turned out to be one of our greatest joys!

Ultimate Respect for Each Other

R-E-S-P-E-C-T! You ABSOLUTELY, must have a relationship where you give and receive respect. This is your beloved, and you are theirs. To be in a relationship that is disrespectful is a travesty to your soul, let alone your self-esteem.

Amazing Communication Skills

This will be the glue through any discussion, argument, problem and joy you will ever experience. You must learn communication skills to reach one another during the times of hurt and wounding, which there will be at some point (hopefully, you pick a partner where that is at a minimal).


Last, but certainly not least, is faith that you will have the love you want! When in a relationship, you will need faith to keep going during the difficult times. Faith will build you up when you feel down. Rely on your faith, and your faith will see you through!

In my mind and heart, I know you will have the “right” relationship if you follow this formula!

In next month’s article, you will learn how to deepen your new relationship without pushing your potential partner away!

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Theresa Vigarino

Theresa helps others heal from their past relationship patterns and teaches how they can deliberately create their new love story.

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