Dirty Texts That’ll Make Your Man or Woman Quiver

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In today’s post I want to talk about “Dirty Texting Ideas”. . . how to create amazing levels of passion, lust and desire in any man or woman you want, just by pushing a few buttons on your cell phone.

Jenny asks:

“Hey, Mike. I love your newsletter and your ‘Text the Romance Back‘ program, but I want to get DIRTIER. Can you show me how to use dirty text messages to turn my man on so he can’t stop thinking about me and so he ravages me as soon as he gets home?”

Hey Jenny,

Thanks for your question, it’s one I get a LOT.

And uh . . . yeah, of course I can =-) It’s kind of my job.

(Quick Caveat: To really answer this question properly I have to get a little dirty in this article. Hope you don’t mind.)

The key with “Dirty Texting” (whether you’re texting a man or a woman) is to use the right words and the right language to engage your partner’s imagination and to make them feel like they had a highly charged “Dirty” experience with you, even if they’re miles (or hundreds of miles away.)

One of the big mistakes people make with Dirty Texting (especially guys) is to go right for “vulgar” without any build up or anticipation.

But the right way to do a “Dirty Text” is to use tension and anticipation to build up and tease your partner . . .

And to use the “Power Words” of “Feel” and “Imagine” to basically hijack the sexual center of their brain.

Here’s how you actually do it . . .

1. Send a “Curiosity Magnet” text like I show you in both “Text the Romance Back” and ‘TextYourWifeIntoBed.com‘ . . .

This is just a simple “hook” to get the man or woman you’re interested in to pay attention to you.

2. Quickly establish a sexual context to the conversation . . .

3. Take control and narrate your partner’s experience for them (this is important. Often times the worst thing you can do is expect a back and forth over text from your partner. You want to be 100% in the driver’s seat here.)

4. Use an “Anticipation Builder” to turn your “Dirty Text” into a self fulfilling prophesy.

Here’s an example:

Let’s say we have Jim and Linda, they’ve been together for a while, but thanks to kids, jobs and all that they don’t have enough time together as they’d like.

JIm decides he wants to really get Linda’s motor running, so here’s what he does . . .

Jim: (out of nowhere): I can’t stop thinking about . . .

Linda: About what (If Linda doesn’t respond, Jim should just keep going anyway.)

Jim: Your ass when you stepped out of the shower this morning. It’s all I could do not to drag you back into bed with me. (Notice how Jim quickly makes this a sexual conversation. You need to strike fast.)

Linda: Oh really? =-)

Jim: Really. You have no idea how fucking beautiful you are . . . I wish I was there with you right now. Watching you in your little work skirt. Just imagine how it would feel seeing me walk into your office, this hunger all across my face. I lock the door behind me, you feel your heart beating like a jackrabbit. I walk around behind your desk. You feel my lips on your neck. This heat building in your body. Your hips push back against me . . .

Linda: Mmmm. That would be nice.

From there, Jim continues to “narrate the scene” in the present tense to give Linda a really nice ride (I’m not going to get super explicit here, but you get the idea.)

Then he finishes off with something simple like . ..

Jim: Can’t wait to see you tonight . . . =-)

5 Quick Dirty Texting Ideas

Feel free to try these yourself:

“You have no idea how much you turn me on. Just the smell of you makes my whole body shake.”

“Try not to think about (something you know he or she loves sexually.)

The “Last Night” – “I can’t stop thinking about last night . . . the way you tasted. The way you made me feel.”

“If you were here right now . . .” (talk about what you would do if they were there right now.)

“When you get home tonight I want you to . . .” (Explicitly lay out what you want them to do.)

Remember, have fun with this. And the sky is really the limit.

Michael Fiore

Internationally recognized as the foremost expert on how to have great relationships in the modern world, Michael is blunt, funny, and always honest.

In 2011, Michael appeared on “The Rachael Ray” show with his popular “Text The Romance Back Program” (Rachael said he gave her “chills”). Since then Michael has given women X-Ray vision into men’s minds with “The Secret Survey”, helped thousands rebuild relationships with “Text Your Ex Back”, and has become an Amazon Best Selling Author.

Michael lives in Seattle, WA and is currently hard at work on his next shocking, straightforward and really, really useful program.

What Do You Think?

38 Comments | Join the discussion

  • Laurie Sep 20, 2013 at 11:39 am

    This is the text I sent to my boyfriend:
    Try not to think about me slowly undressing myself in front of you as you lay naked on my bed. Try not to think about me standing in front of you in a pair of panties as you watch me slowly unbutton my blouse and expose my breasts. And try not to think about what might happen next.

    His response:
    Oh My God !

  • Taylor Sep 15, 2013 at 2:33 am

    I too could use help with some xamples pls.
    this one above was great!
    thanks everyone

  • Khely Sep 7, 2013 at 12:08 am

    It’s weird how I can be really dirty with a person as long as they’re strangers but if it’s my bf I’m totally blank….. What should I do?

  • stacy Aug 25, 2013 at 11:09 am

    I tried it out and my husband likes it.thanks for the suggestions

  • mandie Aug 25, 2013 at 10:53 am

    I like

  • EQMPF Aug 24, 2013 at 11:37 pm

    If you really wanna turn him on. Say things like “I really want you here in my bed so I can travel my tongue down your body until I reach your dick, look at you and make you the happiest man alive” did it once and he was in love x)

  • Aiycia Aug 14, 2013 at 9:45 am

    I’m in a long distance relationship and have never sextd before please help me! When he says dirty thing to me I don’t know what to say back.

    • donna   Aiycia Dec 1, 2013 at 3:35 am

      well does he tell u wat he wants u to do it tell him if he was there ud do it back if he was there dont be shy be creative tell him ur in his favorite footy shit with no underwear on touching ur self while he tells u wat he wants u dont av to do it just tell him ur r it will drive him mad my man is mad on arsenal fc the fort of me naked in his shirt doing naughty things drives him mad !!!!

  • penny Jul 2, 2013 at 9:10 pm

    So i am in a long distance relationship.. and my fiance wants to heat things up.. we text.. skype but never ventured in something like that… so please help.

  • Lisalu Apr 5, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    I used all of you suggestions in a series of texts throught the day. And I had him show up with his dial on high! Said he had that for the past hour! Good sh*t!

  • Sherre Sep 18, 2012 at 8:56 am

    I used this text one time…my favourite and best one for me….I texted my honeylove this…

    ….I am sitting here thinking how I would love to undo your belt, undo your button, slowly….pull your zipper down….and using my…..ooops…green light…gotta go….!!!

    …he loved it…!!!…we are in a long distance relationship….

    Wanted to share this in case you wanted to use as an example…I bought your book and look forward to your new one…thanks for teaching these things to us…you’re FANTASTIC…!!!!…I love learning this and think it is so positive and cosntructive….and FUN!!!…



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